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Thread: Will guys eventually make the 'first move'?

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    Will guys eventually make the 'first move'?

    So, if they liked the girl.... A LOT, will they eventually make the first move, if the girl is obviously too shy to do so?

    And, what if they had some kind of 'time limit' to do so? Because, in my situation, I'm going to be visiting some relatives for 2 months (so we won't be seeing each other within that period of time) in about..... 6 weeks? and I absolutely KNOW this guy likes me because he keeps on looking and staring at me whenever he can (and other signs)... but i'm EXTREMELY shy!

    So, back to the main question, if a guy really really liked you, would he eventually make the first move..... and with a 'time limit' involved? Or would he just... I dunno, give up?

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    Why can you make a move like tought his hand or give him hug to show hes allowed to touch you.

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    - Some guys might make the first move, some are too shy.
    - Are you sure he knows you are shy and he has to move first?
    - I think you better show some interest fast or you will lose him. Send him a note that says you like him and you want to get to know him more.
    I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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    Stereotyping deems the duty of first contact to us men. But he might be as shy as you. If he doesn't do anything, best let him know that you're interested, else you might lose the chance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by oldskool83 View Post
    Why can you make a move like tought his hand or give him hug to show hes allowed to touch you.
    Exactly this. Make yourself available and let him know that you won't turn him down if he does want to make a move.
    To be or not to be?

    Is that the question?

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