Sometimes it seems like i cant be friendly with a man, without him thinking that i am interested?
For example, i will meet a man or just see a man i know.. We will talk and it always seems like men will hit on me. Like.. Cant a woman just meet a man and be friends? Is that really impossible!?
It seems the only male friends i have ever had are all from school..
There is one guy who i have known for a while. He will text now and then saying hello and if i text back he starts asking me on dates and whatnot.. I told him last week i was anything but ready to start seeing anybody so he apologised and i told him i would see him out sometime. He text me yesterday saying hello again, and i text him back thinking we could just be friendly,thinking i had made it clear to him..Next thing he facebooks me asking to take me to out of town for the weekend? So now i have just ignored him...
Can i really not even text a man without him thinking it means i am interested?
It just seems like right now i cant even talk to a guy without them hitting on me or taking my friendliness in the wrong way..It just gets annoying and almost degrading.
My ex told me it was because i came across slutty.. I am not slutty so how can that be!! Ahh so annoying
Can some of you men please clear this up for me?