Sometimes, I overestimate myself. This is the mistake I made 4 days ago when I slept with a complete stranger (and for the first time in my life, no less) in less than an hour after meeting him. I thought I would be okay if I never heard from him again. So after the fact, I mentally prepared myself for the fact that I was never going to see or hear from that person again, and that he was never going to call me, and that any compliment he gave me was probably a lie.
Lucky for me, I have heard from him again. He does call me, and every compliment he gave me wasn't a lie. Every time we see each other, we talk for hours and have sex. At first, I wasn't quite sure what this was, but now I've figured out that I've landed myself in a "f uck buddy" kind of situation. The problem is, I'm falling in love with him with every word he says. And I would really like to have him as a boyfriend. I'm just not sure how to ask him this after it's only been a few days, without sounding like a crazy person or scaring him off. I realize that I can't possibly know everything about him after only a few days, but I don't care...everyone has their flaws. If I were his girlfriend, I would worship the ground he walks on, and love every minute of it. Seriously. He's been all I think about ever since I met him.
If I sound kind of immature, which I suspect I probably do to more experienced members of this board, it's because I am. So please forgive me for that. I'm the kind of person who falls in love very quickly and easily, but takes years to let go. That's why I'm an idiot for getting myself into this situation. I can fall in love with someone after a day, but take three freaking years to get over them. And maybe I'm confusing 'love' with a 'very strong crush', but the feelings are still very strong and take forever to go away, whatever they are. In the past, these feelings have always been unrequited, but now I'm not sure, since it seems like he does like me back and he says so. Not sure how to ask if a relationship can come from that, though.
Advice from anyone who's been in this situation, especially any males, would be GREAT. THANK you.