One question for the mens who are dating online.....

[KoningBeatrix]

hello to all of u .....

i am a woman and like all womans i am very curiouse what mens are thinking because i wanna understand ......so i wanna ask the mens who are datining online ...let's said u was find someone on ur taste ....all is good whit that person(at least that u said and make her feel that or even more u have a seriouse relationship) ..then why u still wanna date whit someone else online ...even u know whit that person maybe u will never meet....is fun? is just looking to see if u are still atractive??? that is meen even the grilfriend/woman who u date is not good enough for u ?

Thank u for ur time ....best wishes to all ...koning beatrix

[vashti]

I am not aware that any of our regular male posters date online, but I think that if you are having troubles with your man wanting to date other women, he doesn't value your relationship in the same way that you do.

[Tiay]

your spelling turned my mind's language centre inside out halfway through reading the post, so i don't know. I hope English is not you're native language...

[Gigabitch]

Beatrix, online dating feeds a different need than regular dating. Maybe he's just not getting enough from one online honey, and needs the ego stroke of several.

Also, online, he can pretend to be a total stud, where in real life that kind of behavior would get him dumped.

[KoningBeatrix]

hello again....


vashti is not about only "HIM"..i know some real mens who are in relationships( like for example my ex brother in law , my ex, 2 friends i know them since the kindergarden .....) and i understand 1or 2 not have the perfect relationships and is understandeble .....but i know 100% my ex brother in law have the "relationship and love of his life " ( he is said that not me and not when she is in the there ...i know that is the true ) but he still going to chat whit womens on the interet ...for me is strange because one i am very loyal person and i was never cheat my partener ..even online..and two just can not get it when i see them wifes/grilfriends doing all they can to be all ok in the relationship and be treated like this ..and also i am thinking at the womens who maybe want to find someone real and they are lied ...i must admit i was meet my actual partener online because i am in a another country and i don't go out much .....he seems a very nice men , he treat me like a princees ,i realy don;t have what to complain about him(only going online)...maybe is the best men i ever meet ... but now i don"t trust him anymore since i was find out he is still on the dating sites..... honest i was erased mine profile when i was meet him sfter we date 2-3 times ....when i realise is something seriouse in my mind but seems only for me was....i was also thinking like Gigabitch ..they need to prove them self they still hansome and they still can pick up womens and be the perfect mens they wanna be ...but i don;t think is fair to the womens who they are talk whit because some of them are real nice womens who want to meet true men not just mens who want to prove them self they are still good ...i think is very selfish !!!..I am sorry i was write to much and i know my english is not so good ..... is not my native language Tiay ..but i do my best specialy now when i learn also the language from the country where i live ....so is not sooo easy, but what we can do nobody is born knowing all ..everyday is a new day to learn something new

[the3wheel]

Good question beatrix,
my new boyfriend is the same ,we are dating and he is going online..... i know that because i was pretent i am some one else and he reply to me , the fake one .."And now im single.Im looking ..............." and betwin him and the fake me are more then 3000 km distance and he don;t plan to go soon in CA (betwin us are only 60km) .....i don't understand if he is playing whit me or whit the grils online , specily when he still have feeling for his ex and i know that ..anyway loooong story .....and when i am thinking i was get in love whit him thinking he is honest and he never let me down..is hard to live in confusion ...Good luck gril!

[Mathias]

This entire thread confuses the hell out of me.

[Junket]

This entire thread confuses the hell out of me.

It's a bunch of gurls tryin' to understand the male psyche.

Heh.

[Mathias]

Oh.

I'm a male, and I don't understand my own psyche.

[vashti]

Oh.

I'm a male, and I don't understand my own psyche.

Don't worry, I will tell you what you think.

[Mathias]

Don't worry, I will tell you what you think.

I'm scared now.

What's my psyche? READ MY MIND!

[vashti]

You are definitely thinking that you should do whatever it is I say.

[Mathias]

You are definitely thinking that you should do whatever it is I say.

Yeah, you are a woman. Always wrong.

[cn176]

you are woman?

[vashti]

Yeah, you are a woman. Always wrong.

See now, this kind of attitude will not serve you well in the long term.