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    Advice?

    aight so im sure this has been asked a billion times but whatev

    im a dude, i like girls... actually i totally fear girls
    im definately too scared to go up and talk to the girl i like but why do they always have to travel in packs??

    so how can i get her alone and actually like ask her out or somethin? im really good at that freeze up or talk about dumb stuff when im around her...

    any advice in the get girls dept?

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    In all honesty, you might not get the chance to ask her alone and she might respect the fact that you weren't scared to ask her our in front of her friends if you can do it.
    I don't chase, I replace.

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    but i am scared...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Blitzer View Post
    but i am scared...
    Well, you better get over that.

    What's the worst that can happen? Saying no? It's not like she's going to kick you in the balls.
    I don't chase, I replace.

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    take a deep breath, swallow any extra saliva in your mouth, put ur shoulders back, and walk over confidently. and ask.
    whats the worst that can happen? you get rejected? oh well i just got rejected about a week ago. oh well

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    or should i text her? or do i lose respect for the not in person thing?

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    you CAN text. but i think it would make a better impression in person

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    would it be strange to ask her at church tomorrow?

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    have you ever talked to her before?

    if so, then nah i think it would be fine

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    yes ive talked to her. we sit by each other in math and are are partners in chem.

    we just dont talk A LOT... i think ill ask to her at church

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    go for it man. goodluck.

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    I HAVE A GIRLFRIEND!!!!

    WOOOOOO!!!!

    *happy dance*

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    Quote Originally Posted by Blitzer View Post
    I HAVE A GIRLFRIEND!!!!

    WOOOOOO!!!!

    *happy dance*
    Congratulations!

    What are the details of the encounter?
    She agreed that you two are in a relationship?

    P.S. I would go on a few dates, before deciding, If you two
    are compatible and not jump to conclusions after one day.
    Last edited by Kromat; 15-09-08 at 11:21 AM.


    " Nothing is a waste of time, if you use the experience wisely."
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cain View Post
    Well, you better get over that.

    What's the worst that can happen? Saying no? It's not like she's going to kick you in the balls.
    be realistic dude. it is one of the hardest things to do

    what would you say to the group of girls? or just say "would you go out with me?" in front of everyone
    Last edited by kaiser27; 15-09-08 at 12:37 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kaiser27 View Post
    be realistic dude. it is one of the hardest things to do

    what would you say to the group of girls? or just say "would you go out with me?" in front of everyone
    One of the most attractive things to a female is a guy that has the courage to walk up to her and talk to her in front of her friends. It shows courage and confidence.
    I don't chase, I replace.

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