Hi All,
i need some clarity for my biological brain so that i can put it to sleep at night. me and my gf are dating for last 3yrs now. from a career point of view i had to move to USA for 1 year and am here for last 8 months. we do trust each other, that was a main reason for me to move out for a while for my career. now my i find my gf acts strange, ignores me completely for a week and sometimes i feel shez hiding something. when i confront her she says that everything is alright and i am acting paranoid all of a sudden.

i asked her to attend to my needs/issues or just frankly let me know if she is seeing someone. but she insists that she loves me and all is ok.
i try hard to ignore these things by focusing the great times we had before, BUT suspicion kills me everyday and night. I want to trust my gf coz i love her, but at the same time i cant digest the fact that i might be very well be cheated upon.

any suggestions/views are welcome.

P.S. If you love some one dearly, just be with them...f#$% the career