My (ex-)girlfriend works just up the road from where I live, and every day her and her boyfriend drive past my house to take her to and from there. I can't help but see them occasionally, and it makes me feel terrible. I was thinking of sending an e-mail to her boyfriend to ask him to take an alternative route? Many are available, the way they go now is probably not even the best.
I know it's breaking NC, but every day now for 30 mins I know they might be driving past, and it really ****s me up and reminds me of it all. When I see them it's even worse.
Shall I contact him? It would, of course, be polite and direct.
Thanks
P.S. in case you didn't know, my girlfriend left me four weeks ago for this guy. I found out a few days after they'd been sleeping together and all that. And I'm still really ****ed up about it all, so seeing them together is very unpleasant.