Hey,
I hope someone makes some sense of this:
Week1: I saw this girl I went school with at a nightclub. At the moment I had another girl in mind so I didn't do anything. Except maybe a couple times I looked at her nice dress(really nice). At one point I needed to make a phone call so I moved away from the noise. After the phone call I noticed she was sitting alone not far from where I was. Felt to me she was hoping I would come talk. I didn't. But I get that alot. Girls come close to me and hope I'd say something. But they never talk first. I guess I have the reputation of a real ladies man who does all the talking.
Week2: I realize the situation with the first girl isn't going anywhere. I decide I want the girl I saw at the nightclub. Luckily I heard where she works.
Week3: After finding what her shifts are I went there once. I didn't do anything really.
Week4-6: I try and try but can't bring myself to go and say hi.
Then I get her number from a friend and send a text message. She doesn't reply. Now, I think she doesn't respect me anymore. She probably thinks I don't respect her. I mean, if I know where she works how hard would it be for me to go talk?
So, should I just force myself to go talk or what?