Hey everyone.
I've been (happily) married for 3 years now, and expecting our first child in a few months.
Until recently, my wife's cousin and I were on formal terms, seeing each other on family occasions etc.
But for the past few months or so, we have been talking a lot more (text and phone), discussing personal issues, revealing secrets, and even saw each other alone a few times.
Although there are no intentions to turn this into a relationship or even an affair, but I have grown very attached to her, and we even (jokingly or not) discussed how it would have been if I wasn't married we would have been right for each other.
I'm now living a dual life... I'm not intending to ruin this friendship but at the same time I feel confused as to what I should do... should I cut back and take it down? I don't see this as ending well if we ruin it to impulses.
My head tells me that there is no chance to be with this person, and divorce is not an option since there aren't any huge problems, that there is a kid on the way, and that the person is related to my wife.
Any advice or thoughts would be appreciated! Thanks.