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    Relationship "break"

    How would you tell your boyfriend that you are am ready to re-asses your relationship after a two month "break"? We never formally broke up, but just decided that maybe we should take a "break". I am ready to talk with him about it. I think it is time that we either get back together or completely call it off. I know where I stand but how do I approach him to ask him how he feels?

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    Whose idea was it to take a break?

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    It was his.

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    Then I feel that if he wanted to reassess your relationship, he'd be the one to make the move back and should be the one to make that move back.....surely?

    If a guy chose to take a break from me, I sure as heck wouldn't go running after him. If he didn't return, I'd take it that it was over.

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    Just send him a text or email that it's over, and you just wanted to formalize it so he's not hurt if finds out that you're dating.

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    It is SO over.

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    You shouldn't be waiting for HIM to decide your future. If you are ready to break it off, then do it.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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