Long story short.
There's this girl I like at work.. at first, she had a boyfriend so as months went by I heavily resevered my feelings for her. As soon as I had heard she was single again I began to open up. I tried really hard to not show how much I liked her - I even confronted her about our relationship was just matual ATM. As time has gone by, like 3 weeks, we've been getting close. I would hug her everyday with no problem..
Now this is when it gets iffy: we write emails to each other like we normally would. She meantions she has been talking to another Guy she just met. I played it off cool because I wanted her to know that we are just friends.. later that day I give her my daily hug.. everything appears well. Afterwork she goes off telling a friendly Co worker that I'm hugging her too tight and that it needs to stop.
The disconnect for me is, why didn't she just tell me I was making her uncomfortable? It was never my intent to harm her or make her feel like she cannot have relationship with someone else.
My question is," am I at lost with this girl now that she voiced out her feelings towards my actions"?