We have been married a while and things have not been good for a while but I am working on things and trying to get back to the way I used to be and be the way we were when we were first together. He used to have his eyes open almost the whole time we were intament but now he hardly has hiS eyes open. One of our problem was that he was obsessed and attracted and loves another women he sometimes works with. He says he knows it is wrong and he is working on it and I am trying to give him the benifit of a doubt and give him what he asks for so he is happy with me and thinks of her less. But I can't help but wonder if he is thinking of her or his porn a lot now since he has his eyes closed a lot. Why is he closing his eyes? Should I worry or is it normal?