Insecurity?

[geico101]

Hi,

This is my dilemma. I have a good friend, which is a girl, and I am a guy, that usually talks about this one person that she hates. And while she talks about that person's biggest flaws (fat/skinny/bad skin/etc), those are also my biggest flaws. I usually don't care about what people say, but the way how she was being so explicit, it made me felt uncomfortable about myself. I guess my question is that am I starting to become insecure or is my friend just being inconsiderate? My assumption is that since we are good friends, she probably just doesn't see these things within me?

Some feedback, tips, advice, etc, would be greatly appreciated.

P.S. It's really interesting to see things from the female's point of view. haha.

Thanks,

[ecojeanne]

she's a bitch, stay away from her coz likely she is bitching about you behind your back

[geico101]

Sorry if I made her sounded like a bitch, but she is really a nice person in general. Just that particular person gets on her nerves. lol.

[Spring Haze]

She's being inconsiderate. It's one thing to talk negatively about someone, but to do so around a person who has the same 'flaws,' that's really rude.