first i want to say i'm 26 and i've tried masterbating but i get nothing from it. the only time i ever had an orgasum is when my boyfriend played with me but i was away from him for 8 months and now i can't reach an orgasum and he thinks it's his falt. so my queastion is "is there anything i can do to start orgasuming again?"
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30-01-05, 04:17 PM #1
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any help please
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30-01-05, 04:31 PM #2
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Do you own any toys? Ever used any?
This is the first thing I would ask. Most girls with this issue have never tried them, and when they do, never go back. We can go from there
Otherwise, you will have to explain to him that some women simply take a long frickin time to come, regardless of whatever you do. That's just how it is. The difficult part is bringing the girl to the point where she is comfortable to allow herself to come.
Remember that 90% of you having an orgasm is mental.
But my other question would be if there has ever been any form of abuse or serious relationship problems in your past?---------------------------------------------------------
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30-01-05, 04:39 PM #3
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not sexully
and yes i have tryed toys but still nothing
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30-01-05, 04:58 PM #4
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If not sexually, then how? Physically? Emotionally? And from whom?
What toys have you used, specifically? A lot of them out there claim to be the magical silk touch machine that will bring ecstacy in minutes, but don't
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30-01-05, 05:20 PM #5
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wel to the abuse i was both Physically and Emotionally
and as to the toys i used a vibrator and some lotions that stimulates females
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30-01-05, 06:46 PM #6
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can share on how the abuse was done? It could have done something to you subconsciously that hold you back from having orgasm.
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30-01-05, 09:03 PM #7
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I don't get anything from toys at all. Not a thing. I've tried several vibrators and rampant rabbits and clit stimulators. Doesn't do anything for me, and I've never climaxed through sex either. maybe some women just don't. I'm beyond thinking that one day I'll feel fireworks.
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31-01-05, 02:33 AM #8
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True, but you have had some bad sexual / relationship experiences as well.
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31-01-05, 07:18 AM #9
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I can though if someone goes down on me but I can't with sex toys. Its really odd.
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31-01-05, 02:34 PM #10
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he was my only one and he use to be able to but now i can't reach an orgasum
