What do you do when one of your favorite songs was "your song"?
One of the things my most recent ex and I shared the most together was our similar tastes in music. We both loved Ray Lynch, and would listen to his music together frequently. She was also the one who introduced me to ColdPlay by showing me the song "Cemeteries of London." It instantly became one of my favorites. Ever since we broke up, though, I haven't been listening to it. It speaks to me in a lot of ways, but one of them became a deep intimacy that we had. It's been months, and I'm still afraid of the memories it might stir. I'm sure I'll be able to enjoy it again, eventually; I just wonder how long it will take.
Anyone else have this dilemma?