Ok we were firiends for over a year and its only recently that I have seen him in a romantic light and apparantly likewise. He has this female friend that he's only met in the last few months. It didn't bother me at all what friends he had until I took an interest... of course. He told me openly that she'd be hitting on him and had asked him out. He had said no to her not because of me but because he just didn't consider her relationship material. That actually made me feel better than if he said "I said no because of you" if you get that? Anyway I have the whole theme of trust him until he proves otherwise. But if I'm totally honest he is a pretty flirtatious and alluring kinda guy. I am proud of him but I still worry of other girls intentions. I've explained to him that he cant NOT see how much his female "best friend" fancies him. Plus even though we want to take it steady and mutually decided to keep it at a low how am I meant to respond when his friend comes out of nowhere, totally off topic to tell me that he has dreams of "them". She even told him to give the details and in a noticably strained tone of voice he proceeded to tell me about his dream journies and rescuing adventures that he had of her. Now I get that dreams cant be helped and I get that maybe it wasn't something he'd like to share with me for obvious reaons but the fact is isn't it a BAD idea to share these kind of dreams with someone you are "trying" to not give the wrong impression? I used to be overly jealous and paranoid with my exes but I'm proud to say that I've been working on that with some great success. But I don't know how I'm meant to take this? Should I just cut ties for my own sanity if I am feeling like this BEFORE we're even official? thanks in advance for reading this opinions much appreciated!