A few months ago I broke up with my ex girlfriend and have been hanging out with my friends and they have been trying to hook me up with random girls and such but I just havent felt any connections. I have a huge family and out of the 5 brothers I have 2 have met theire girlfriends online and one of them married her I have always been really skeptical about it but working so hard and having good people around me makes me feel like I really have been missing that someone special and also meeting random girls are normally partying type girls and I am more of a relaxed guy I don't like clubbing, don't get me wrong I love going out for drinks with the homies and having a good time but the whole clubbing scene isn't for me. Anyways back onto topic I am curious I feel like all I am trying to do is get to know people online and I don't know what it is but I don't know how to get a gal to want to chat with me. I am not a robot and I am not looking for quick sex. I just feel like there are millions of girls out there and I can't get one to notice me (wow I feel like a loser for saying that haha). I don't think notice me is the right word but like how do you describe yourself to be not hostile but show that you have a ton of love to give to the right girl? I am not afraid of getting to know someone but like what would you have to read to actually want to get to know a guy? Is it all about the picture? Do you keep your profile short and sweet or write down your life story lol. I could use some help as I know I am a good guy who is just having trouble getting girls online to notice lol. I have never had problems getting girls offline I am just working so much and it would be nice to not have to go get drunk somewhere to meet a girl (or even better go and not get drunk). Maybe I should take up a hobby like bowling? haha lat me know what you think