Hi everybody,
I recently met a guy who seemed to be quite serious, even though we went home together the same night.. We both decided to meet again later the same week. That day when we were supposed to meet I didn't hear from him, so I sent an sms. He immediately called me up and said that he unfortunately could not see me that day because his father had been sent in to hospital and had been diagnosed with cancer, so he was very occupied with this, not knowing if he would survive or not. Which I totally understand.
But now I wonder if it is true... I have met a lot of weird guys, so in my world I wouldn't be surprised if someone lied and said that his father has got cancer, instead of saying up front that he doesn't want to see me.
What do you think? I think it is a really lousy and bizarre lie, if it is a lie. I mean you can tell a lot of lies but this is over the line in my opinion..
Anyway, when we send sms he replies fast, within minutes. And my experience of guys who are not interested is that they usually reply late, if they reply at all.
So what do you think, do you think he's lying or telling the truth?