Friends say forget it what do you say?
My ex's birthday is on Saturday.
She called me on my birthday to wish me a happy one...promised dinner and then reasoned it was not smart of her...blah blah blah and it never came to it.
Now, I deffinetly would not offer dinner, but given the drama that unfolded since then?
what do you recommend?
1. Forget her...Don't call at all
2. Call her to wish her a quick happy b-day- no card.
3. At least send an ecard...or card...
4. Stupid one: drop off a cheap bouquet of flowers...
5. drink Tequila, hire a mariachi band and have them sing "I am over you" "So glad you are gone from my life" "You will recognize your mistakes and come back begging me" theme songs....
"Ah, women. They make the highs higher and the lows more frequent." Nietzsche
There are two dilemmas... that rattle the human skull. How do you hold onto someone who won't stay? And how do you get rid of someone who won't go?