So I am 34, she is 21. We worked together for about 9 months. When I first met her she had a b/f, we hung out a few times and I started to really like her. I would write her poetry and cook food and bring to everyone at work but would let her try first. She loved anything I would make. She said no one has ever been so nice to her before. 7 months go by, she breaks up with b/f and we start seeing each other after about 2 weeks from her b/f who she was dating for about 11 months. I was with her for about 1 month before she broke up with me two days ago (right before Valentines Day), awful timing. She said she was falling for me already and had to break up with me because she was getting "Too Happy". WTH. I have never heard of this. She claims she is toxic and always ruins a good thing. She said she plans to move to Florida but doesn't know when. I told her I would go with her, she says no she doesn't want to take me away from anything where I live. I told her that there is nothing for me here. I try everything to make her understand that she is not toxic and only she can change. She still wants to be friends. She says she really cares for me and it's too early to say "I Love You". But I have yet to understand her reasoning. I am lost. Anyone have any insight on this?