My partner and I are going through a very rough patch at the moment. We are both reassessing the relationship. We lack common interests, like reading, etc. He admits he takes no interest in what I do (I study music and psychology) and never will, and our sex life is nonexistent.
Two weeks ago, my boyfriend of a year and a half told me he isn't attracted to me, but he likes my personality. I delved for clarification, and he openly stated that he has never been physically attracted to me.
I was distraught by this comment, and though I do love that my personality comes first, to be told that I am not physically attractive was a blow.
In the last few weeks, both of us have been trying, and there so far as been no success. Now, I understand that these things take time.
My problem is we were getting physical a few days ago, and I just couldn't have sex with him. My mind could not get over that he wasn't attracted me.
He then shut down and became stoic and uncommunicative. I really needed a cuddle, and some reassurance, and he wasn't able to offer it. Fine. But he was that moody that I ended up apologising and comforting him.
In the last few days, he had not been texting me like usual, or calling me. He is very distant. I have asked if he's okay, and I get no response.
I don't know what to do.
I've attached a photo...I don't think I'm ugly.