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    met a Girl online...

    I met this girl online ive been talking to her for about 2 months almost every day
    and were really good friends
    but what would i say to her to see if she wanted to be more than friends
    Is there some secret question i can ask
    where "yes" = wants to be more
    and "no" = just friends
    without sending her one of the notes we youst to make in 4th grade saying
    "do you like me???? circle Y/N

    anyways we will be meeting in a week and she will be attending my school this fall
    I just hope she doesnt start running when she see's
    my 6'4 260 lb Lineman ass showing up for dinner

    P.S ( i'm not fat! im a Defensive Tackle on the Varisty Football team were just built like tanks)

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    is she single? Have you exchanged photos? I say meet her first and go from there.
    also, sorry, there is no secret question. yes, there are many ways to gather hints and such, but a lot of them are based on chemistry (which, believe me, just doesn't function online), and really the only way to know for sure is to bear your feelings and ask her if she wants to be more than friends. You need to do this before you slip into the "friend zone", though.

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    But Tiay! It worked for us online!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Koro
    I met this girl online
    Yeah you and the rest of the world.

    Anyway, just see how the meeting goes first before you jump to anything.

    People can be very different in person.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zarathu
    But Tiay! It worked for us online!
    heheh, ooh, zarathu, I had no idea! Maybe if you had said you wanted to date, I'd have lost my bf and-- well, not a chance in my case, but you get the point, Koro.

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    I'm going to cry myself to sleep.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zarathu
    I'm going to cry myself to sleep.
    isn't it morning where you are?

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    17:27, I'm in Paris until my birthday.

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    Oh, Koro, don't do anything until you meet her in person. There's no need for that, and you might really regret it.

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    Yeah listen to the others. Don't do anything until you actually meet her and spend some time with her. These things are hard to judge over the computer. You need to find out if there is chemistry between you two in person.

    I have met a few guys from the internet. Some of them I really hit it off with, others I didn't. I think the biggest mistake I made was starting a relationship with them right away. I should have taken some time and went on a few dates with them first before commiting to anything. Because, as time went on, I really got to know the REAL them.
    Appreciate the good times and learn from the bad times....


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    Quote Originally Posted by Koro
    I met this girl online ive been talking to her for about 2 months almost every day
    and were really good friends
    but what would i say to her to see if she wanted to be more than friends
    Is there some secret question i can ask
    where "yes" = wants to be more
    and "no" = just friends
    without sending her one of the notes we youst to make in 4th grade saying
    "do you like me???? circle Y/N

    anyways we will be meeting in a week and she will be attending my school this fall
    I just hope she doesnt start running when she see's
    my 6'4 260 lb Lineman ass showing up for dinner

    P.S ( i'm not fat! im a Defensive Tackle on the Varisty Football team were just built like tanks)


    I would like to see a picture of you

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    Quote Originally Posted by InLove16
    I would like to see a picture of you
    You're a freak.

    DON'T DO IT KORO!!!

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    god why am i a freak?

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    Quote Originally Posted by InLove16
    I would like to see a picture of you
    Are you cheating on your on-line American boyfriend?!

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    Tiay said
    "is she single? Have you exchanged photos?"

    Yes and yes,

    Thanks for the advice though i feel you guys were right and i was being a little impatient trying to jump the gun and start something way to early

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