Originally Posted by
Lilia
He texted me this morning. He said his schedule changed and we can't meet.
He said we could meet next time but I have a feeling that he's lying to me.
He's staying in my city for 2 days and he can't find a gap in his schedule for me?
He knows that I work until 6 pm though.
But I am upset. Why did he make plans with me in the first place if he didn't want to meet me.
May be he met someone else...
Yet you were going to cancel on him to play some game to make him think that he's having to "work for you?"
You're too immature to be dating a guy like him. He's playing you now and he's winning at the game because he's got you so worked up that you're coming to a forum board full of strangers to help you figure out your own next move.
Stop contacting him altogether and when or if he has the time and most importantly, the interest in actually meeting you, he'll make the proper effort.
Did you ever wonder why he doesn't return your text when you text him at night? There is a good reason for that and it's a red flag reason too.
Forget him and let him chase the women that want to be his casual partner. You're not experienced or indifferent enough to just forget pieces of work like him that just show enough interest to fk with your head.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion