Hello everybody. It's my first post ever regarding a love matter and I'm quite amazed I'm here asking your advices.
So, I know this is probably a common topic but ... until it happens to yourself, you never quite get it. It's easy to say - move on, let her be, find somebody else, it's wrong, it won't bring any good BUT it's damn hard to do!
Briefly this is where I stand: I met this girl a while ago (5-6months) at some dance lessons. At first I didn't liked her much. Top of all, I knew she has a bf so my interest dropped even more. But day by day, things evolved and what I've always tried to avoid, happened.
I felt in love with her. It's not how she looks(though she's pretty) ... I've stopped choosing girls by the looks a long time ago... it's everything else - the smile, the innocence in her eyes, the sloppy walk, the fuzzy hair, her personality who seems to say "I'm lost, save me".
Until this day, I never said anything to her about my feelings, I know that 9 times out of 10, confessing stuff like that won't lead to anything good. I just played the ignorant role. Most of the time I've just treated her with indifference, made fun of her and teased her. It was hard to do it but I knew I don't have many other options.
The problem is ... there are only 2 more weeks left and the dance lessons will end and she will move to another town. The more I think about it the more I feel like in one of those romantic sad movies, I never had the patience to watch till the end. Ironic, isn’t it?
What should I do? ... I've twist and turned this on each side. Shut up and let it be? Confess everything to her? Remain in touch with her and act like some kind of a friend? Try to seduce her in these 2 remaining weeks, like I never seduced anyone before?
I am certain that I’m in love with her! The only girl I’ve ever felt this way before was my first GF (we were 5 years together). I’ve met many girls since then (I’m almost 30 now) but my heart was frozen … until now … so I know this is different. Completely different.
I have to do something, I must do something. Please don’t say – forget her … it’s not an option. I’ve fooled myself once that time resolves everything, it doesn’t.