Hello all,
I'm currently living in France, have been for a few months. I've met a boy. He's the flatmate of my best friend here, so I spend a lot of time at their house. I really appreciate him, he's very kind and she holds a high opinion of him. I haven't done anything about it but I think he feels the same. I told her the other night, but just that he is a very handsome man. She didn't really respond to that, and I tried to bring it up again today and just said that I told her cos I wanted to share my feelings with her, she was pretty non-committal about it. I'm definitely not wanting her to take part in it, but I do want to talk to her about it - I think she thinks I would just **** around with him, but he's more of a keeper kind of guy. Not really sure what to think - I don't want to ruin their living arrangements, but I am leaving the country in a couple of months..
So, not sure what the etiquette is around this! I don't want to get her involved, but I feel like if I had a friend who was into my flatmate, I'd want to know about it.. And she's really my best friend over here so she matters!