OK I'm a 30 yr-old guy and my good female friend had a party this weekend, which she invited me to a week ago. She wanted me to meet her friend who she goes to school with. So I went to the party and I really liked her.
After the party we ended up going back to her place and one thing led to another and we did it. This is the first time I have ever met someone and did it on the first night, but it was really great. I left early on Saturday morning, and we exchanged numbers and I set up a date to meet her for dinner on Sunday night.
On Saturday evening I called her to reschedule dinner for Monday night because I forgot about my dance class on Sunday. She never returned my call, but on Sunday I got a text message from her saying that her ex-boyfriend returned. I text messaged her back saying that if ever she was single again I would really like to see her.
She called later and explained to me that her ex-boyfriend came to see her on Saturday - crying and telling her how much he loved her bla bla bla .. she could'nt say no to him. Anyways she wants to be friends with me, and invited me out to lunch next week with the girl that invited me to the party. I told her that I didn't want to be friends because I am looking for a girlfriend.
I am kind of confused about what happened. I wish I could see her and be with her. My girlfriend who had the party I have known for so long, and would never set me up with someone who would just be out for sex. Anyways I have never slept with girls on the first night before but maybe thats where I went wrong. If I had not slept with her maybe I would have had a chance.
On the other hand I can't help feeling like I may have been played too - because she really wanted to have sex with me (ie. going to the bathroom and coming out wearing basically nothing). Anyways, help me out here. I don't get it.