I hate Exes <3

[Weewoo]

Hi everybody I'm new here =P I have a little problem concerning my ex-girlfriend, its like everytime I see her I melt. I had thought that I was over her after I've dated 2 more girls after our break up, but I still can't get her out of my mind, I have no idea why she is so damn special.

Today we rarely talk, maybe once every 5 months on messenger and in real life we just say hi to each other and continue with our businesses. What I would like is to first become good friends with her again, and then I dont know, maybe I'd have another chance later on. So thats it I think, I want to become good friends with her but don't know why I cant.

Here are a bunch of obstacles in the way:
1) Shes a flirt, always surrounded by guys
2) As I said we rarely talk.
3) If we do talk on messenger, the conversation is pretty much one sided, I ask question, she replies and doesn't continue the conversation.
4) Believe it or not she has a huge crush on my 2nd cousin (He and I dont talk anymore)

Donno thats it I think, would love some advice. How can I become good friends with her again? =(

[lastwish]

Whats the nature of the break-up?

[Illusional]

just forget her already. if you can't stop thinking about her after you've dated a few, then you're only setting yourself up for a fall.

raverboy

[Cain]

First of all, the relationship ended for a reason. Chances are, it'll end again for the same exact reason.

Secondly, she doesn't seem to be interested in you at all.. not even a tiny bit. Move on.

[Kromat]

Learn from this and move on.
Let her be a chance to change yourself, or find someone that respects you.
Don't let her win, let her know that your over her, that's what guys don't get.

P.S. Excect the failures, and make them help you to make a positive change.

[Weewoo]

The nature of the break up was because she cheated on me with my cousin <.< thats why we dont talk anymore.

But anyway since you think that it's best I move on, I'll listen to your advice. Thanks, to all of you =]

[1averagejoe]

Wow...what a cousin. Stay away from that girl, she's trouble. If she can cheat on you once, she'll cheat on you again. Move on.

[Illusional]

i'd shove my dick up her ass just to show her and my cousin something.

raverboy

[Cain]

I hope you never talk to either the girl or the cousin again. You shouldn't even acknowledge that she is alive.

[Weewoo]

All I needed was a little thinking I guess, yea "once a cheater always a cheater" =D

[Illusional]

All I needed was a little thinking I guess, yea "once a cheater always a cheater" =D

maybe you should scrap with your cousin. i'd like to see that.

raverboy

[Steven M.]

I can understand not being able to simply "get over it", but yeah since she cheated on you with your effin cousin you gotta start tuning into your anger and hate. Don't think about the good things, remind yourself of the shit things she did to you to help.

I know hate is not a nice thing, but I know from my own experience that sometimes the best thing to do is get pissed off and bitter; although granted I've never had something as bad as cheating to be mad at.

[Kromat]

I know hate is not a nice thing, but I know from my own experience that sometimes the best thing to do is get pissed off and bitter; although granted I've never had something as bad as cheating to be mad at.

Think of yourself as someone that she missed on, and just make someone else happy.
If u keep her in your mind and portray negative thoughts, u will hurt the people around you.

[Steven M.]

Think of yourself as someone that she missed on, and just make someone happy.
Iif u keep her in your mind and portray negative thoughts, u will hurt the people around you.

Yeah, that is very true aswell mate, your quite right.

[Only-virgins]

Some people just don't get it when it is over. I mean come on? with your cousin? It is retarded that you want her back.