Love Making Vs. Sex

[ALovelyLady86]

How many of you prefer love making to hard core f**king? Do you think there is a difference? I'm interested in opinions on this...

[BlackRose]

It depends on my mood.

[KRISTI S]

Most of the time I do prefer passionate love making, but sometimes you just need it rough and raunchy. Its okay as long as the kids aren't in the house, hehe. Everyone needs a good quickie every now and then too.

[artyemi]

haha.. This makes me think of a sex spectrum..

1-10

10 being hard core f-ing
1 being love making.

5-6 being average, daily sex.. I don't know, maybe 5-6 being love-making
but where would the quickie go?
is it between love making and f-ing..

[Only-virgins]

I think physically its more or less the same just maybe one is less rough then the other....emotionally its different. Same activity at the end though. What the hell is a quickie? wouldnt that just be hardcore fawking but very ...uhhh...quick?

[Tas]

hmm I don't get the difference for me harcore f is like very dirty stuff like anal or facial that I'm not really a fun. Apart from those I normally do all the rest with my gf some times in normal mode some others in tough mode, is this considered love making

[Innova]

Depends. I'm all for chained up, against the wall.."lets do it rough baby" kinda sex...then there are times for slow moving, candle lit, "I love you with all my heart" sex.

I love both the love and lust aspect of relationships.

[Jeblina]

Love relationship= making love

Lust relationship= making like

I think both have their advantages....

But for me.....well, the last time I had sex, it had been 2 years since I had, it was pretty much hardcore sex....so much so that my neighbor gave me a thumbs up the next morning when I went to get the newspaper...hehe. But yeah...of course I think every girl likes to have it slow and romantic sometimes too...

[Innova]

To have a successful relationship physically...you need to mix both the love and lust aspects of sex.

Both are just such a sensation to me...

[misombra]

i agree. my boyfriend and i have all kinds of sex. it's all good! i don't really see the difference between love making and sex. it's all sex to me.

[Only-virgins]

i agree. my boyfriend and i have all kinds of sex. it's all good! i don't really see the difference between love making and sex. it's all sex to me.

Yes, physically. Think of the different mind set one has during passionate sex and just straight sex. Its emotionally a bit different I think.

[ALovelyLady86]

I agree, sometimes I want it hardcore... just harder and harder... most of the time though I want it sweet.. lots of eye contact... very emotional.. lots of touching...

[Innova]

Sometimes with my ex, we'd be going at it really hard...and then I'd slow my rythem till I just left the tip in there. I'd stare into her eyes, and smile then kiss her. Then a second later..WOOSH, right back to the hard stuff. Dear lord did she LOVE that! So even when I was lusting after her, she still knew how much I loved her.

[misombra]

yep, i agree. when you're with somebody in a relationship you have both kinds and you both just know intuitively what the other person wants as you get to know each other better. the mindset is the same, you love that person and aren't afraid to be gentle and romantic or nasty and freaky. you're not afraid to please that person. i would hate to be with someone that only wanted to have one kind of sex i would be so bored.

[artyemi]

i feel like i have soooo much to learn. awww, you guys are like way ahead of me.