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Thread: Contact from my ex and im back where i was 3 months ago...

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    Contact from my ex and im back where i was 3 months ago...

    All it took was a simple "hi this is ...... , this is my new number"
    And i couldnt sleep again last night, thinkin of her.
    "All i could see was her elegance"
    So, my minds workin overtime thinkin ... why has she put my number on her new phone? did she explicitly text me? is she thinkin bout me?
    So in the end i replied, felt better until she texted back sayin how great shes doin.

    So i ask again, 3 months of pretty much solid no contact since the split, will i ever be over her???

    Can i suggest a flaw in the no contact rule - it doesnt prepare u for seein your ex....i was lucky enough to be moving 300 miles away from her, we still have mutual friends. So no contact worked well for me - now the slightest bit of contact ruins me as is evident here.

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    Let go of the hope you won't have to let go of the person.

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    ex's linger like ghosts. let them go. tell them to go to the light and far away from you. don't respond to her. let go.

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    haha.. misombra. where have you been??

    back to jay.. yeah. it's tough. i'm sorry to hear that she texts you to tell you how great she's doing.

    everything is flawed.

    don't respond to her. it only encourages her to keep contacting you.
    "Ogres are like onions."

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    I know i know but when i dont respond i just think about her constantly

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    slowly, it stops.

    listen, you did it before. you can do it again.
    "Ogres are like onions."

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    She sounds like a brat. Why would she want to rub it in? I agree with Arty's post - don't contact her again.

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    KICK HER SKANKY BUTT TO THE CURB, DUDE!

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    Alright jay, give me her number, and her address. I'll get my people on her asap.
    "Ogres are like onions."

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    IMO,,,,,you need to get on with your life man,,,,,,,you can do it,,,hang in there and be strong,,,,,in time things will get better, and life will seem promising,,,,,,until then... I like pina coladaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaasssssss

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    Quote Originally Posted by shh!
    She sounds like a brat. Why would she want to rub it in?
    This is it man, she dumped me, and got over me v.quickly....she got with someone else days after we split. And she still wants to rub it in...iv not really been with anyone else since and shes always been in the back of my mind, now at the front of my mind though.
    I guess its because she was my first love but i was probly her tenth or something, well probly not a "love" at all.

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    Now iv text her back she hasnt replied...i jus wanna scream at her - god i thought we had something, its not like im tryin to get back with u, just thought ud dignify me with a response.

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    well she's obviously not that happy if she's trying to get in touch with you...

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    Or she just wants to needle him. Seems it's working.

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    **** this, another sleepless night and ive come to post my feelings.

    I am stilll very much in love with this girl...no contact has not worked, and it kills me that all i get is no proper contact with her now. I feel like she txted me her new number cos she felt she had to.

    I jus keep tossin and turnin in bed thinkin bout her, imaginin her in the clothes she used to wear when i knew her...imaginin her receiving my text and saying to her friends how she isnt textin back to that. It kills me.

    I would do anything to rewind time to start from the beginning with her and make sure i didnt lose her.

    I love her and right now it feels like i will never stop loving her. I cant imagine anyone will ever take her place. Her voice, her laugh, her look echo in my mind and it really is killing me.

    I would die to have her with me.

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