WTF? Another girlfriend going psycho. OMG man, this all started because you didnt put up something about her in your away message? DAMN! And this being after what almost 2 years of being together? Yea things change, but holy hell, your girlfriend went off the deep end here.
Sounds like there are other deeper issues going on here. Its obvious you were trying to be honest with her and she took that and ran with it. She's very immature for acting out the way she did. She's suppose to be in love with you and youre treating her like shit? You cant NOT be honest with her. You will were telling how you truly felt and she turned into her. Thats not right.
Honestly~I wouldnt want to deal with someone whose quite so EMOTIONAL and takes things to the exteme. Thats really sad she treated you that way, she also sounds at this point a manipulator. Is she is going to act like that NOW, my goodness what is she going to be like later on and further on down the relatiosnship? OVER AN AWAY MESSAGE!
Youre right, relationships do change, people grow, etc. If she thinks your relationship is going to stay at a certain level how are you suppose to grow? A relationship needs nurturing, and shes not giving that to you. Sounds like youre growing up and wanting more while shes holding you back.
Id let this one go, and or at least give this a break. And if she comes back crying to you, tell her you need a break for awhile to sort things out, TRY and discuss maturely, even though I dont think she will take that news very well, I would take a break for sure, its just something that you should consider a red flag. If you talk it out and figure things out together that would be great. Try and tell her from your side of how you feel and NOT dog her out. She wont be on the defense AS much. You have choices here, thats the beauty of it, stay or leave!
Goodluck to ya!
everything happens for a reason...beginning to wonder why.