Originally Posted by
lovesjoyajm
There's a guy I like, whom I've made many posts about (the [straight] ballet dancer.) At this point, we've kissed once, about a month or so ago, and haven't talked about it since then. We've had normal, friendly, interesting conversations, and I still like him.
Thing is, there are only 6 weeks left in the semester, and for all I know, we could end up never seeing each other again after the semester ends. So I've been trying to figure out what to do. My question is, how would you (guys) react - well, girls too I suppose, but the relevant case here is guys - if a girl in a similar situation, one whom you had kissed but nothing more, just laid it all out there?
Here's the "it": "I really like you. The reason I stopped kissing you was because I had no way of knowing if we were on the same page regarding 'how far to go', since I'm saving sex for marriage. But I've thought about it a lot, and if you have any interest in a relationship, I'd really like to give it a try."
Would that freak you out? Do you have any other suggestions, or better ways for me to get this across?