So my ex and I broke up back in February (he dumped me), and we've still been seeing each other and having sex. We're having a bit of a pregnancy scare and what he said last night about it shocked the hell out of me.
He asked if I thought I'm pregnant, and I said no. He then asked if I want to be pregnant, and I said, "No, do you want me to be?" And his response was, "I dunno." He then says he doesn't necessarily want me to get or be pregnant, but he wouldn't mind if I was.
Then later we got on the subject of raising children as a single parent, and my ex said if I were to ever get pregnant, he would not want to raise the child separately...so he'd want to get back together. I told him that a child does not solve relationship problems and we wouldn't be able to jump into anything if I turned out to be pregnant because the problems will still be there. He said it wouldn't be fair to the child if we didn't get back together. He told me this about 3 different random times in the few hours we spent together.
He used to be cautious about being protected when we'd have sex, or I'd be on the pill. Now, he has thrown caution out the window (I guess I have too). I'm getting back on the pill next week though.
I am sooo confused by this. Why would he not mind if I got pregnant...we're not even together thanks to HIM! Is he looking for an excuse to get back with me or something? Our friends and family are really against us getting back together right now, so that's the only explanation I can think of. What do you guys think?