Yeah, me again. Again, I've been with my girlfriend for 3 months. Each month, there's this point where she's REALLY depressed for 'no reason' according to her.
I tried my best. Below is the convo I usually get myself into.
Me: What's wrong?
GF: Nothing
Me: Tell me what's wrong.
GF: It doesn't matter.
Me: Why?
GF: Because even if I said it it wouldn't help.
Me: Have you told anyone about it?
GF: No
Me: Try and tell me.
GF: It doesn't matter. There's no point.
Me: Why?
GF: It just doesn't.
Me: Do you want to be happy?
GF: It doesn't matter. I'll just be unhappy.
Me: Why?
GF: I just will.
Me: ..... Tell me please?
GF: There's no point.
Me: Does it have anything to do with me?
GF: I don't know..... (Holds head with hands)
Me:......
That about concludes all the things I asked and the answers she's given me.
Apparently, she's upset. And there's a reason for it. She didn't tell anyone. And it SEEMs like it has something to do with me.
All I'm asking is, in these 3 months, she's been like this 3 times. Each time, I'm clueless, useless. I can't make her happy and I feel... worthless. When she's unhappy, she always turn to her ex/best friend. And I mean like ALWAYS. HE'S the only one who can make her smile when she's not happy. Not me.
Today, her ex tried to cheer her up, and she's not cheered up this time. This is bad. All I want, is to find a way to get her to talk to me. About her problems. Preferably before this friday because I'm leaving for another country for the holiday. I've tried everything. But I never seem to be the one to make her happy when she's sad to begin with. I.... I need help. And please, real advices. I know I need to take time, and stuff but I just... *sigh* I need help with this. I'm totally worthless/useless when it comes to opening up my girlfriend.