Is he shy or not interested?

[Lavender]

So I'm a little confused.This guy and hang out with the same group and I think he likes me ..like he is always looking for ways to get my attention when he sees me and teasing me.He will come up behind me and whisper in my ear,nothing exciting,work related but he is defintely in my personal space.Also,he came to my birthday party last year and brought me a really expensive wine so at the very least I know he likes me as a friend.Anyways, I don't understand though why he hasn't yet added me as a friend on facebook.He knows I am there b/c he is friends with all my friends.Would a guy hesitate to add a girl onto facebook b/c he is shy or is he just not interested at all?

[Michael6084]

i'd say the guy is trying to get you to go a little after him, so that way he knows that you are interested in him. i know from my perspective and if i was him, if i did everything and she didn't do a lot, i might think she isn't very interested in me.

so yeah, if you like him, go ahead and add him instead of him adding you.

[Jimmy1218]

facebook? Why are you going crazy cause of facebook? You have a mild case of paranonia, see your family doctor.

[Gigabitch]

That's a weird one, Lav. You'd think if he were trying to play it casual, he'd add you just like everyone else.

Forgive my ignorance, not being a Facebook user, but couldn't you just add him? Or you could resort to the old tried-and-true method: gossip. Tell somebody you think he's attractive. It will get back to him.

[Stirfry]

Just ask him if he likes you. Its sweet and romantic to fanticize and wonder, but just get it over with.

[CAM]

Who knows. Speculation: 1. He's scared of you; 2. He doesn't like you; 3. He's gay; 4. He's insecure; 5. He's private about his feelings for you.

[Cain]

Eh, that's a bit odd... I mean, just Facebook. Just add him.

[Only-virgins]

He didn't add you on face book?! It is official ...he hates you and wants you to die...I mean...holy cow it is face book!

[bigfella247]

And facebook IS of course the determining factor of life itself.

gee whats so god about this "facebook" thang anyways. I'm a Messenger guy...hell I don't even use myspace.

[Only-virgins]

And facebook IS of course the determining factor of life itself.

gee whats so god about this "facebook" thang anyways. I'm a Messenger guy...hell I don't even use myspace.

Erm...sarcasm?

[bigfella247]

Erm...sarcasm?

perhaps just a bit

[YourBestFriend]

I think he does like you, but also likes flirting and fooling around, so just play along with it!

[DarkDwarf]

i'd say the guy is trying to get you to go a little after him, so that way he knows that you are interested in him. i know from my perspective and if i was him, if i did everything and she didn't do a lot, i might think she isn't very interested in me.

so yeah, if you like him, go ahead and add him instead of him adding you.

See... this one time... before I moved... I would flirt with this one girl... she would flirt back, but she never initiated the flirting... so I gave up on her. It wasn't until recently I learned that she had liked me back then. Some girls need to initiate flirting with whoever they like, otherwise it gives off signs that they don't like whoever the guy is.