Lady's take on a mid 20 virgin male

**geico101** · 20-01-09, 01:56 AM

Hi,

I was just wondering do you ladies consider that as a loser image?

Thanks,

**Indignant** · 20-01-09, 02:03 AM

got a picture to show?

**geico101** · 20-01-09, 02:23 AM

Hi Indignant,

Sorry, but I don't feel comfortable showing a picture. But I can provide you with some information. I'm about 6 feet tall, weighting in about 165. Not the most attractive person. I just see myself as being average. I'm an accountant working in one of the big fours. Had only one relationship before that lasted about a year.

**Indignant** · 20-01-09, 02:32 AM

would you e-mail a pic if you don't want to share with everyone?

**geico101** · 20-01-09, 02:35 AM

yeah sure, what is your email?

**Indignant** · 20-01-09, 02:38 AM

check your private messages

**geico101** · 20-01-09, 02:42 AM

Ok, you can check your email now.

Thanks,

**Indignant** · 20-01-09, 02:48 AM

i see nothing wrong with you. very attractive young man. how did you manage to stay a virgin in 1 year relationship?

**geico101** · 20-01-09, 03:04 AM

Well, it was a very complicated relationship. But I can just summarize it. I was stupid enough to get into a relationship with a girl who had a bf. Although she initiated everything, from flirting with me to telling me she liked me, I accepted everything. I guess this was mainly due to the fact that she was giving me hope that she was going to break up with her bf. As stupid as I was, I waited from days to weeks to months and finally a year before knowing it. And finally when she really did break up, she also dumped me too. I was so hurt by this that I never had another relationship ever since (years). I'm just too afraid of feeling that pain again. But anyways, during our relationship, I consistently reminded myself that she had a bf, so every time she wanted sex, I just bushed her off. I admit, it was a hard temptation, but I just fought it off. We never went pass kissing.

I know that I sinned big time, but I am paying for it now.

**Indignant** · 20-01-09, 03:12 AM

Originally Posted by geico101

Well, it was a very complicated relationship. But I can just summarize it. I was stupid enough to get into a relationship with a girl who had a bf. Although she initiated everything, from flirting with me to telling me she liked me, I accepted everything. I guess this was mainly due to the fact that she was giving me hope that she was going to break up with her bf. As stupid as I was, I waited from days to weeks to months and finally a year before knowing it. And finally when she really did break up, she also dumped me too. I was so hurt by this that I never had another relationship ever since (years). I'm just too afraid of feeling that pain again. But anyways, during our relationship, I consistently reminded myself that she had a bf, so every time she wanted sex, I just bushed her off. I admit, it was a hard temptation, but I just fought it off. We never went pass kissing.

I know that I sinned big time, but I am paying for it now.

OMG, will you marry me?

**geico101** · 20-01-09, 03:25 AM

lol. I guess everyone learns something from a relationship, and as for me, I'm still digesting it. As stupid as it sounds, I got to be less trusting.

Sorry for going off tangent.

**Indignant** · 20-01-09, 03:29 AM

Originally Posted by geico101

lol. I guess everyone learns something from a relationship, and as for me, I'm still digesting it. As stupid as it sounds, I got to be less trusting.

Sorry for going off tangent.

no no no, you should never loose your trust in people. just because you have experienced a great disappointment in your life you have no right to mistrust a new romantical interest that will enter your life at some point. you should always approach a new partner with your heart and mind open.

and why are laughing at me? i was serious!

**geico101** · 20-01-09, 03:38 AM

Well, your right. Shouldn't make a definitive decision based on one situation.

And I wish relationships are really that simple, haha, then I wouldn't have such a headache regarding a girl that I just recently liked (who probably doesn't like me). lol.

**Indignant** · 20-01-09, 03:42 AM

Originally Posted by geico101

Well, your right. Shouldn't make a definitive decision based on one situation.

And I wish relationships are really that simple, haha, then I wouldn't have such a headache regarding a girl that I just recently liked (who probably doesn't like me). lol.

did you approach her?

**geico101** · 20-01-09, 03:57 AM

Here was my original post:

ask-female-forum/26667-friend-word.html

I guess that situation sort of how it lead me into this current question (topic).

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