Is this woman long term material or trouble?

[bob the brave]

Met a women 38 years old. She has a wonderful personality, great communication skills and good at her job as office manager.

Problem is she although she is very friendly, she seems to take friendship lightly more as a convenience then a bonding (both men and women), she readily has casual sex, has a 3 year old son she does not have custody of, likes to party, smokes, makes subtle sexual comments and has a DWI. She also seems to be somewhat fickle in dating, that is, switching back and forth between guys.

I know this girl sounds like trouble, but I get the feeling she is looking for stability in her life and is really very sweet. Do you think I she would be capable of having a long-term relationship?

[HeartIsAching]

You my friend have White Knight syndrome. She doesn't want or need fixing, you want her to want fixing.

No, she's not long term relationship material. You'll just hurt yourself if you try to make her so.

You can't make a ho into a housewife.

[bluesummer]

Where in that list of personality traits and behaviours did you read 'looking for stability in her life' and 'very sweet'?

It's rare that a woman would not have custody of her child, so I'm thinking she's a massive partier and probably also a shitty mother. No offense, but stop trying to polish a turd.

[Wakeup]

Don't forget the DWI and the multiple sex partners.