is he into me?really desperate to know.

[aaliyah_2001]

I like this guy. .
We never used to talk and then all of the sudden one day he comes and starts talking to me.I found that we had alot of the same interests. I'm shy so he would always be the one to come and say hi to me first. And this was happening for quite a while and then he would continue to talk to me about just general stuff. .weekends,stuff like that. While talking there was a lot of eye contact so much so that i always found myself looking away because he was freaking me out. when talking to him he would have his body facing me and soemtimes we'd be standing a little bit closer than i was comfortable. there can be heaps of room and he'll come and stand next to me. If we hadn't seen eachother in a while he would come up to me and say hi how are you? He laughs at some of the things i say and sometimes he looks at me when he thinks i'm not looking. and also when i'm talking to other people, he will look at me sometimes. Then one time we hadn't talked the whole day and he comes to me and asks me for a pen. even though we're about to go home and he says he's got plenty of pens at home but he's forgotten them. He remember things i've told him about and asks me how they went,shouts me lunch and used to tease me a little bit. if i look at him he doesn't look away straight away. and he offered to take me to a basketball game. what do you think?

[Gigabitch]

God, yes! He's into you.

[Ellynn]

Yeah sounds to me like he's making an effort to get to know you better. Why not go to that basketball game with him? That right there was a hint he wanted to spend more time with you. Also the lingering eye contact and the looking at you.


Go for it girl!

[aaliyah_2001]

no because i'm a dense idiot obviously. he was like i'll pay for you. i was like no thankyou.

[Ellynn]

no because i'm a dense idiot obviously. he was like i'll pay for you. i was like no thankyou.

Poor guy!! He probably thinks your not into him!
Well next time you see him, ask him if the offer to take you to the game is still good. Then GO and have a GREAT time!

[aaliyah_2001]

yes. and i think it's the first time i've ever liked a guy because of his personality and not his looks. i'm in real deep. i just got scared.

[aaliyah_2001]

easier said than done. you see he's a little bit older.

[aaliyah_2001]

no he's not married. 10 years.

[aaliyah_2001]

i'm 22 and no he don't have kids.

[Gigabitch]

If you're 22, I think it's pretty important that you get to the point where you know when a guy is asking you out. For God's sake, he did everything but hump your leg. What were the other guys you've dated like, I wonder?

[aaliyah_2001]

i met him through a friend. so do you think he doesn't like me now?

[Gigabitch]

He will be thrilled if you go out with him. He's really into you.

[aaliyah_2001]

do you think that age matters to a man in whether he pursues a girl or not?

[Ellynn]

My friend was dating a guy who was 10 yrs older then her up until recently. (They broke up for other reasons.) But anyways, she is 22 and he is 32. I don't see anything wrong with the age gap as long as you don't. I highly doubt he does.

[aaliyah_2001]

It's good to hear that there are other people like me out there in the same situation. just saw him again. talking to me, freaking me out with how much he looks at me when we were talking. and now even his friends are talking to me. i don't know what to do.