Hello all....so here's the deal. I've been single for about 3 years now. In those three years I have, for the first time in my life, been enjoying the single life. I have always felt like it was wrong to sleep with others that I really didn't know that well, but in the past three years I figured I would give it a shot and I have been having fun with it.
Maybe that is bad, but I know it is fairly common. I have wanted to be in a relationship for a while now, but since I have been working out and in decent shape, I have been getting more girls and part of me wants to keep doing that, while the other part of me says that will only get me into trouble. And a steady relationship could actually lead somewhere and be a good thing. I wonder if it's a little hesitation just because I'm used to my total freedom...? Or maybe I don't want to get hurt again?
This girl called me and invited me to go roller blading with her, and suggested we catch a movie sometime. She's nice and sweet, good hearted girl, and is really cute! So I wonder why I'm even debating going out with her.
Her only downfall is that she doesn't carry her end of the conversation as much as I would like, but it could be because she's a little shy or nervous.
Maybe i'm just nervous because it's been so long since i've been in a relationship? Or i overthink things and think she's not perfect.....but I try and remind myself that nobody is. So I don't know....I guess I'm just wanting a different perspective on this all.
Thanks,