Memory of past relationships

[ftheunion]

Women, what do think about when you remember past boyfriends. Is it the sex, or his charm, or how it ended? I wanted to know if my one and only from jr. high will ever think about me like I always do her. I can’t remember everything, it’s hard cause it just seeps away from me. I’m 18 yet it feels like ages. I don’t mean nothing to her, so I doubt she ever thinks about me. I think about her a little each day, or at least a few times a week. Plus after high school I moved 450 miles away to live with my aunt, cause without her, (and not having had anyone else since) I had no reason to stay. I’m not convinced females think about it the same as males do.

Any help is appreciated.

P.S. - I have since moved back to SoCal due to me being too poor. I still won’t see her, even though I think she lives in the town right next to mine.

[Gigabitch]

Some exes stand out like neon signs in the desert. Don't be so sure she's forgotten you.

[splitsville]

The more time you've spent as a couple the less likely I think it is to forget them. And of course I dont think anyone forgets their first!

[squirrley]

Oh yea I think about x's. In all the aspects of the relationship. How each and everyone did or didnt do for me. Of course how ended too.

I think about them, maybe not as often as you, but periodically they come into my thoughts. I think anyone whose had a profound impact on your life you never forget. Good times or bad times.

I bet she thinks of you too.

Are you thinking about contacting her?

[ftheunion]

Thank you for reading my thread.


I dunno exactly where she is living, and It went down bad when NC started.

I am confident she no longer thinks of me. Last I heard she had a bf, interesting considering how many guys she went through.

[Illusional]

personally i don't live my life remember how good it was in the past, i create new memories for the present.

raverboy

[Tiay]

Thank you for reading my thread.


I dunno exactly where she is living, and It went down bad when NC started.

I am confident she no longer thinks of me. Last I heard she had a bf, interesting considering how many guys she went through.

don't be so sure.

I have a semi-ex (long story) that I never even met (internet) and then I got my current bf who i've been with for three years, and I haven't talked to the ex in about that long too. And you know what, I still think of him fondly now and then– he was a big part of my life for a long time, and I will always care about him.
chances are, if she had good times with you, she will remember.