We want to know how to go about this. Any input would be very helpful, hopefully someone else has the same situation. Here it goes.
My girlfriend and I have tried having sex and going the whole way, however I am just head in when she starts screaming in pain. Even fingering her after a while she starts sucking in air in pain, through clenched teeth.
The doctors say there is nothing wrong, and she is still a virgin. Everyone says it's because of her barrier, but I have never heard of anyone in this much pain. She is afraid of me breaking her, and is someone afraid to let me do it. I want to know what is the best way to go about this without hurting her so bad, she'll never do anything again, etc.
When she's on top she can usually get me in further, but still not very far. 2 1/2 inches probably.
Anyone know if this is because of her barrier? If so, how should we treat this? We've heard just do it and break it fast and hard, but then we heard to take it small, bit by bit...
Anyone? Anything?
Side note, she says it feels like a pressure pain, not stabbing or piercing. As if you were to push real hard on your naval.