I have a friend that I have known for about 4 years, I'm 28 and she 27. She is currently married but has been separated for a couple of months. She was married for 7 years and knew him since she was 14. Well she and I started talking again in Feb. and became very close. We would text each other hundreds a day and would spend all our off days together. I was trying to be somewhat respectful because she is still married so I didn't try to cross THAT line, but we did make out once and it got pretty intense, no sex though. She told me the next day that I was a good kisser and that is was nice, etc. This was about a month ago to 3 weeks ago. Everything was going good for us until about 1 week ago. She went to visit a gay friend (I throw in gay so I know they didn't DO anything..I know the guy very well) in Miami, she works for the airlines so fly's cheap, and so I relaxed on the texting so she could enjoy her vacation. She had gone a few weeks ago to visit a cousin in Miami and I did the same thing in terms of letting up on the texts. Well this time she calls me on Saturday, a drunk call, and we just chatted until she feel asleep (she has drunk called me before and everything was fine the next day). So on Sunday we just text a couple of times and after then I have not heard from her at all. I tried texting her twice on Monday and then again on Tuesday and she never responded. I then waited till Friday and said "hey" and still nothing. I am just completely confused because we went from talking and seeing each other all the time and her telling me she liked me and missed me and then abruptly she goes silent. She knew the whole time we were seeing each other and going on actual dates that I liked her. So why would she go almost 4 months talking to me all the time and showing that she did like to go completely silent without a single explanation?