I've been chatting daily with a girl for around 3 months now,though haven't met yet. Strictly on facebook and text message,that first started on a dating site. Right now,she's only looking for friends that she got out of an engagement 4-5 months ago,where her ex broke it off. I have gained interest in her through out the months,and it's not that I don't want to meet her,just don't want to meet,hang out and fall into that friend trap due to her mindset. Especially,I've been burned enough in the past with girls,so little hesitant. Compared to hanging out with her,when she had a different mindset. hang out,yet dating on the mind overall.
Now I've had thoughts about popping her a message,just stating my interest here,but same time know nothing is gonna happen due to her situation,but just to give her something to think about. Opinions,if I spilled interest,could that possibly make things awkward for her,or if I worded it a certain way,hoping that wouldn't happen. I've never been engaged,plus for one to end,to get an idea how long it might take her to be ready again. Just been going back and forth mentally on what to do here.