ladies, i want to know something.
my girl and i broke up. after about 2 weeks, i texted her and talked to her telling her she's the love of my life and i was wrong. because i took step back, i realized that you are the love of my life. i expressed to her how i felt. that was last sunday.
she texted me on monday, that she found a new person and she's happy now.
then i told her, i wish you hadn't told me that but i love you and believe in us, i'm hoping for marriage and a future with you. that i had to leave to change my way of thinking, to see things more clearly. had i not done that, we would've continued to live together with no bright light in sight and that i'm not going to quit on us. i love you too much to just walk away again.
so yesterday (wedensday) i texted her in the morning and said "can i take you out to lunch on sunday?" ...she said Yes.
then i said ok..."i'm going to take you to baja cantina (the place we always go to by the beach), take a walk on the beach so dress comfortably and there's this place i want to show you."
she replied "Ok!"
i have not contacted her until this morning...about 3 hours ago i texted her "missing you....wish we could go get coffee together...have a great day ok?"
and she has yet to respond.
i'm wondering of the possibilities here...
- was she just disgusted with my text that she couldn't respond?
- maybe she is really really hooking up with this other guy...i know her though, she's not the type, all her friends have told me this before i met her. it took me 6 dates to get a kiss from her! almost a full month. that was crazy...
- maybe she just went to work and forgot to text me back
- maybe she's just into this new guy so much she's not responding...
but if she is into this new guy, why go out on a date with me to lunch, a walk on the beach etc?