Desperate Help

[Latinmaster99]

Ok so heres the thing... I really like this girl, but shes really beautiful, and incredibly popular, whereas I'm only a middle class nerd. I know we have a lot in common and we do talk, so it's not the typical nerd thing cause I am kinda popular, but still, what should I do?

thanks,

A befuddled dude

[Gigabitch]

You should quit judging her. Seriously. You have no idea what's going on inside her head- you could be exactly what she needs.

She's already GOT the beautiful and popular thing going on. Figure out what you could bring to the relationship and let that be the seed from which your confidence will grow.

Confidence is really compelling.

[investiie]

I know we have a lot in common and we do talk

what's the problem then? just continue talking to her.. more deeply.

[Chloe Fleur]

If you find it easy to talk to her, why not trying to ask her out, then? People are often afraid to hear "no", but it's worth a try. Either everything will be just perfect or you'll remain friends and be free to look for your true love. One person is not the whole world!

[Vain]

Its all about the charm and the confidence.

[Dave4586]

here my idea i would be friends first then ask her out

[Only-virgins]

Just ask her out. Don't beat around the bush.

[vashti]

Skip the "friends" part. It usually doesn't work. Be bold and confident, and just ask her out, and act casual and confident when you do it. If she says no, then just smile and say, "well, you can't blame a guy for trying" and walk away. Do your pouting where she can't see it.