I just joined this forum. So here's a short recap of my life. Married since 14 years, 2 kids. Been struggling in our relationship for a long time. Except this time I have realized that it is over. Not sure if my wife agrees, but she's not too happy either. Sometimes it's better to separate so that the kids don't have to suffer. They see us argue, and it's not healthy.
My other problem is that I have been confiding myself about our problems to someone. Of course I had to pick my wife's friend for that. I've known her for years, but it is just recently that I have had the chance to really talk to her. And now I understand what kind of wonderful person she is. Yes, I've fallen for her. She's not at all pushing me into any direction, which I respect her very much for. But does she feel the same for me? I'm not sure. Since I'm just a stupid man, this would probably be a question for you women out there. I have seen signs of similar feelings from her, and on the other hand she's my wife's friend. And she's in a really tough spot. I don't think I would have let my feelings get to this point without any response from her.
I know some will say that I'm trying to replace my wife with a new love. Well, that is not the case.
So, what to do now? I do not know, any advice?