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    help plz..

    Im 18 ..well almost 19 and ive been having trouble talking to girls face to face.. i have no problem talking to them online or on the phone, i just cant seem to get any further.. i've had girlfreinds in the past and they all noticed that too. i know that to say and how to say it but when i look at the girl i like i turn to mush and just smile like an idiot. what can i do?

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    Train yourself up. Try talking to girls in general. Girls you are not interested in first. I think that would help. It's quite common for guys to trip over themselves when they talk to girls. Shy guys unite! Haha... But it is something that must be overcome, not only for a better love life, but also to be more successful in other areas in life.

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    i have no problem talking to girls i dont like, its just the ONE that i do

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    Ha... same as me. You just have to overcome your fear I guess. No choice...

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    I did for a while and then I realised that there is no spoon.

    Edit, Sorry on a more serious note you need to tell yourself that the only way it can turn out worse is if you never talk to her at all.
    Last edited by Ratfish256; 01-09-04 at 10:19 PM.
    An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind.

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