I recently started casually dating a guy in my circle of friends last month. We try to arrange a date once a week on a weekend night when we have sitters.. With in this month We did decide to take things slow and take our time We both have been in horrible marriages and ugly divorces. We both are single full time parents of 2. We never had a talk about being exclusive or the status of our relationship. .. The problem i had a threesome in the beginning stages of us dating. One of his good friend was involved with the three. Well last weekend the guy I'm seeing and his friend in the 3some got together and it was out in the open. Of course I got a call from my guy obviously very pissed off. I tried to explain my side of the story and i did get out that it was true but I couldn't get out my whole side of the story. We hung up and I sent him a text later that day to apologize and talk. He didn't respond until wednesday night. He sent a text to say sorry that he was an ass and that he wants to meet and talk on Saturday to clear the air. We had a good phone conversation last night but made it clear that we weren't going to talk about the drama until Saturday which is fine.. I am super freaked out about seeing him. I hate arguments and confrontation.. And coming for a emotional state of being abused in the past. It does bring up flashbacks. He has a right to be upset though. I made sure we would meet in a public place just in case. But I just dont know what more there is to talk about. He heard what happened. I confessed. I just want to get an opinion to see Am I the only one at fault here? And what do you think this meet up is about?