Is it normal to still have feeling for an ex-girlfriend (first love)??

[osprey46]

My boyfriend dated this girl (his first love) when he was about 16. Now he is 19 and we have been dating for 2 1/2 years. We have been happy and recently moved into an apartment together. Recently..about 2 months ago, he went to see his ex girlfriend without telling me. He told me 2 days later saying he felt guilty for lying and nothing was going on. She is now living a few states away and has a finance. Then I found out on my own that he was myspace messaging her (he started the messages, at first she told him to get lost) behind my back. When I confronted him he told me that it was because he felt bad all these years for hurting her (they broke up because he started rumors to make her mad). I am just completely confused because he told me I was the one and I should'nt worry. He said he told me everything there was to know.
Is it normal for him to still have feelings of love for his first love? Or should I move on? I feel like he is the right guy for me (never felt the way I do with him before)..I just feel like he settled with me or something..idk..i'm very confused and need advice please

[girl68]

Sounds a littleto sketch for my liking...

[xxazurexx]

I'd say YES, some people in a relationship can still have feelings for an ex and I don't think your guy is over his ex, sorry.

[MynameisJesus]

He wouldn't lie about these things if they were innocent. It is the top of the iceberg.
Sounds like you are his plan B

[xxazurexx]

^Exactly.

Secrecy is 'betrayal'...