Well I am having trouble with the other half, and who better to get advice from then people who don't know me or him ..
So let me start by telling you about me and him .. I am 21 and he is 29 we met online through a dating website in March this year and we have been together
since, So the problems started in about May ... one night we were discussing our sexual interests and he opened up and said he would like to see me with other
men, so I thought I will give it ago, and we went to a swingers club ( I have never been more nervous in my life) But I relaxed and we got into it, a coupled were
interested so we had a bit of foreplay fun, but after it I broke down crying ran to the toilet n locked myself in there for a good 15 minutes. So we left and spoke
no more of it. Since being together we have seen each other around 12 times ( 7 of these times we went to a swingers club) I have never for filled his fantasy and slept with another man, so when we do arrange to meet he wants to go to a swingers club, and when I say no, he suddenly comes up with an excuse as to why he cant see me, hes working, hes ill, hes meeting family ...
I just feel like he wants me to play out his fantasies, he sometimes acts like a "normal" boyfriend and other times he acts like he only wants me cos of his fantasy,
we have not been on a "normal" date yet, no flowers, no gifts, no sweet little messages.
I am just at a loss as to what to do, I can not talk to friends as they would be freaked out by the whole thing they think we have a normal relationship.
We talk everyday ( texting) we hardly ever talk on the phone. He is giving me a key to his apartment when he moves, BUT ...
When I dont reply straight away to his messages or I say im going out he sometimes accuses me off being with other men, sleeping with guys, and instead of getting angry he wants to know the details ( even when I havent been with a guy I am 100% faithful with him !!!)
I need honest advice !!! please don't hold back