Why my bf didnt grope me as before?

[noahjeff88]

We are in a long distance relationship. Since we are good students and really focus on school, we have met like 1/ month, but we talk often during the weekends if we dont have midterms coming up. We are doing anal, because I dont want to lose my virginity. Before, when we met, he kissed and groped me, but on our last date, he just kissed and finally did anal, but didnt grope me(even chest or down there). But he still held me while sleeping after anal, he was very charming. (a few days before that, we had an argument about normal sex, I wanted to break up but he persuaded me to stay and we dated) Is it normal? Or something has changed?
I am a girl, he is a guy. I doubt he is gay or losing interest or something?

[Valixy]

From where I come from, women may have vaginal sex when they are attracted to a man even if there isn't a very serious compromise established yet sometimes, but wouldn't have oral sex unless they are in a serious relationship. Most women I know would never even want to try anal sex and don't find it at all appealing.

You seem to have your priorities the other way around. I don't know if it's right or wrong, but you're missing on the real couple experience and also asking your boyfriend to simply have sex with you instead of making love. Vaginal sex would stimulate him much more (and you of course) and you could both interact much more, so you'd both enjoy for sure lots of kisses and touching.

It's really your decision and his of course, but just for you to know, when there is sexual penetration, you have stopped being a virgin, even if you keep protecting your hymen. There's no reason for you to imagine you're still a virgin and refuse yourself and him the real experience, in my opinión, especially if you feel that he is the right guy for you.

[chinagirl]

Are you for real??? What's the difference??? Anal sex, vaginal sex... YOU ARE NO LONGER A VIRGIN! Don't be pretentious!

[noahjeff88]

Ok. let's say I am not virgin anymore. And let's say I dont want to do normal sex. When we had anal, I was on my back, so he could kiss me, but the thing is he didnt grope me as before he used to, he just kissed.

[vashti]

If you ever saw a rectal prolapse, you'd never let a guy stick his penis in your ass again. lol

[basilandthyme]

I just Googled rectal prolapse.....wow, that was a mistake

[KingZ]

Basil- so innocent. That's kind of adorable.



(If you want to ruin your innocence further, go to efukt.com)

[chinagirl]

Ok. let's say I am not virgin anymore. And let's say I dont want to do normal sex. When we had anal, I was on my back, so he could kiss me, but the thing is he didnt grope me as before he used to, he just kissed.

Then just tell your boyfriend straight up that you not only love anal sex, but you also prefer to be grope all over the place and STOP using VIRGINITY as an excuse because that's totally lame!

[smackie9]

Your BF is getting bored, and or he's got something else goin on and he's distracted. He's in college girl....lot of potential to get something on the side when it's an LDR...you wouldn't be the wiser.

[smackie9]

I just Googled rectal prolapse.....wow, that was a mistake

I think that's what they call a "rosebud"

[IndiReloaded]

I just Googled rectal prolapse.....wow, that was a mistake

An inny that becomes an outie. Well, as someone who has given birth.... meh.

[KingZ]

Looks at rectal prolapse and says "meh".

Indi the Badass.

[IndiReloaded]

Looking is one thing. Touching and dealing with it another. I could if it was a loved one but not a stranger. Vash is the real badass.

[KingZ]

No, she's just a nurse.

[bekho]

Probably just the distance is making his feeling fade.

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